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While shutting off feelings might seem like the best way to avoid any jealousy or discomfort, it is likely those feelings will arise in hindsight anyway — so address them in the moment calmly and honestly. When you're on top, have your partner move into a sitting position. Not all women ovulate at the midpoint of their cycle. Shibari Knows Best 27 3. You know there's no room in that backseat.
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